Comments on: Complaining v.s. GossipingIs There a Difference? http://unconditionalconfidence.com/blog/2007/04/07/complaining-vs-gossipingis-there-a-difference/ Sat, 06 Sep 2008 02:35:33 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6 By: Nancy Tierney http://unconditionalconfidence.com/blog/2007/04/07/complaining-vs-gossipingis-there-a-difference/#comment-58 Nancy Tierney Tue, 10 Apr 2007 04:41:56 +0000 http://unconditionalconfidence.com/?p=54#comment-58 Tuck! This is a great suggestion on how to get the most out of one's complaining! Turn it around by getting to the root of it within oneself and then transform it with appreciation. I love it. Your suggestion made me think of the other day when I got together with my friend and found myself gossiping. Perhaps we were just commenting on what we fear about ourselves? Or what we fear others think of us? Great suggestion. Tuck!
This is a great suggestion on how to get the most out of one’s complaining! Turn it around by getting to the root of it within oneself and then transform it with appreciation. I love it.

Your suggestion made me think of the other day when I got together with my friend and found myself gossiping. Perhaps we were just commenting on what we fear about ourselves? Or what we fear others think of us?

Great suggestion.

]]> By: Tuck, The Rebel Belle http://unconditionalconfidence.com/blog/2007/04/07/complaining-vs-gossipingis-there-a-difference/#comment-57 Tuck, The Rebel Belle Tue, 10 Apr 2007 03:52:48 +0000 http://unconditionalconfidence.com/?p=54#comment-57 Here's the way I look at it Nancy...if I find myself complaining about someone or dwelling on something about them...I always ask myself a question. Why am I being triggered? What are they a reflection of for me. I'm usually pretty clear that what they are showing me are aspects of myself I'm hiding from or not willing to acknowledge or embrace. Then...I get to thank them for the gift they bring to my life...the opportunity to acknowledge and accept all that I am. This Universe rocks doesn't it? Here’s the way I look at it Nancy…if I find myself complaining about someone or dwelling on something about them…I always ask myself a question. Why am I being triggered? What are they a reflection of for me. I’m usually pretty clear that what they are showing me are aspects of myself I’m hiding from or not willing to acknowledge or embrace. Then…I get to thank them for the gift they bring to my life…the opportunity to acknowledge and accept all that I am. This Universe rocks doesn’t it?

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